Tuesday, May 29, 2012

How to: Make your list (and stick to it)

My to do list for today

I've always been big on making various kinds of lists: a list of things to do, a list of books to read, a list of recipes to try. The only problem I've ever had is actually sticking to these lists. Classic. Call me the world's biggest procrastinator, but I haven't always been like this, and I certainly don't want to continue like that. They say that it's the fear of failure that prevent us from doing certain things, and I have too many dreams to accomplish to let the procrastination stand in my way. So here is my own strategy to make an effective to do list, and stick to it:

1. Choose the best support. And the best means the most convenient for you. Your list must be easy to access - if you can't have it with you at all times, it won't work. Personally, I've always been a paper & pen kind of girl: I simply love the act of jotting down tasks and ideas on my notepad, and then crossing them out. Plus, I've had a major disappointment with Evernote so now I'm a little bit weary when it comes to phone apps. However, there's one great exception: Remember the Milk, that has proven its effectivity while grocery shopping. The bottom line is: find what works best for you and stick with it.

2. Always list a realistic number of tasks. Are you the one to jot down 50 tasks and then feel overwhelmed? Believe me, I've been there, done that. I call this "my superwoman moments", when I feel like tackling all the world's problems (starting with the world peace, obviously). Of course, that never happens. Now I write down 20 tasks maximum, and I try to have them all finished by the end of the day. Believe me, it really decreases the pressure. 

3. Break down large projects into smaller, more specific tasks. Let's be honest: tasks like "clean out my closet" or "make my blog successful" scream of vagueness and frankly, they are more terryfying than motivating to me. Now, if instead of these daunting projects you list something like "edit my dresses" and "find out ways to monetize my blog", that's another question. Suddenly, we are talking about concrete actions that can be accomplished in one day. Remember, baby steps are everything.

4. Use your productivity to your best advantage. Figure out when, during the day, you feel most productive, and schedule the most demanding tasks during this time. I'm most productive in the morning, after my daily caffeine kick and my workout. That's when I feel that everything is possible and that I can do almost anything. Figure out "your time", and make the most of it. 

5. Don't be too hard on yourself. This is definitely something I need to work on. Remember, we are human, not machines. If you weren't able to accomplish a task (or two; just make sure it isn't the entire list), send it to tomorrow's list and make sure it's one of the first tasks you tackle the next day.

Voilà! It seems easy, doesn't it? All you need is a little organization and a healthy dose of willpower. I now make sure to set aside 10-15 minutes every evening to think about what I've accomplished during the day and to compile my next day's list. I feel much more in charge and seeing that I'm making an actual progress toward my dreams always gives me an extra boost. 

Now tell me, what is your approach to the "to-do lists"? Do you have your own special method to make it work?

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13 comments:

  1. i love it to make such lists. it's a good motivation.
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    maren anita

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  2. I'm a list maker from way back! I think it helps keep you sane! Way to go!

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    XOXO Dana

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  3. I've tried to make my to do lists last for more than a day or two, but I just can't
    seem to keep on being constant in making them and sticking to them :P
    There're some great ideas in this post, thank you for sharing it with us and
    also thank you for commenting on my blog! :)

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  4. Love these tips! I am definitely way too hard on myself. I am the girl who has 50 things on her list and I get mad at the end of the day when I haven't accomplished everything on it. I also get annoyed because I can never accomplish one task in its entirety at one moment. Like mopping for instance. There are constant interruptions so it may take me the whole day to get the whole house mopped. Ugh. That frustrates me.

    Amy

    fashionandbeautyfinds.blogspot.com

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  5. These are such great points! Good luck with your list!

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  6. This post is so supportive. Thank you!
    I always make to do lists too!
    Thank you for being my new follower!

    xx
    me-travelleroftheworld.blogspot.com

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  7. I am a great list-maker and get great pleasure ticking everything off. Like you (and despite having every Apple gadget around), I prefer pen and paper :-)

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  8. I LOVE lists! I always have my list of "must-do's" in my daily planner. Then, in the section for notes, I have a running lists of projects I can work on during any extra time I find :) Great tips!

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  9. A great motto is 'plan tomorrow today'. It helps me sleep better knowing I'm prepared. Also 'expect the unexpected' - leave a gap in your day for those just incase moments when things don't go according to plan. Oh and definitely allow time for fun, chatting to friends, exercise. I work 10-12 hours daily and wouldn't survive without short breaks.

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  10. I am a list kinda girl so this is right up my alley.

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  11. I never really make lists, but it may help because sometimes my mind goes crazy with all the things I'm trying to organize all at once. Great post!
    xoxo

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  12. I'm a big list maker too! I stick one with my uni homework on it above my desk, and next to my bed I have a small diary, where I write down a to-do list for the next day so I don't forget to bring things :) Love your guide, it'll definitely help me stick to my lists better than before!

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    xx

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  13. I've always loved lists too.
    I usually have a few at a time, I feel far more organised when I see things written down

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